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Showing posts with label Child and Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Child and Family. Show all posts

Thursday, 8 December 2011

Early childhood education

Early childhood education | Childhood Education

 A child's needs during early childhood are different from those of older schoolchildren, because early childhood sees the greatest growth and development, when the brain develops most rapidly, almost at its fullest. It is a period when walking, talking, self-esteem, vision of the world and moral foundations are established.[citation needed] The early years of life are critical to the development of intelligence, personality and social behaviour. Research on brain development attests to the importance of key mental, physical and social capabilities. If these fundamental capabilities are not well established from the start, and especially if neurological damage occurs, a child's learning potential could be adversely be affected.[citation needed] As such, education in early childhood must have its own specific practices and issues.

For programming purposes, it has been decided to extend the concept of early childhood to about 8 years of age. This age range provides the opportunity to reinforce the view of the development as a continuum. It will facilitate the interaction between the pre and initial school years. The concept of basic education calls for the inclusion of early childhood and the key "survival" grades, that is, the first two or three grades of primary education.

Early childhood education often focuses on children learning through play, based on the research and beliefs of Jean Piaget. This belief is centered on the "power of play". It is thought that children learn more efficiently and more knowledge when given the opportunity for play based activities such as: dramatic play, art and social games. This theory plays off of children's natural curiosity and tendencies to "make believe", mixing in educational lessons

According to UNESCO ECCE (Early Childhood Care and Education) Unit, Early childhood is defined as the period from birth to 8 years old. A time of remarkable brain development, these years lay the foundation for subsequent learning.

The terms preschool education and kindergarten emphasize education around the ages of 3–6 years. The terms "early childhood learning," "early care," and "early education" are comparable with early childhood education. The terms day care and child care do not embrace the educational aspects. Many childcare centers are now using more educational approaches. They are creating curricula and incorporating it into their daily routines to foster greater educational learning.[citation needed] The distinction between childcare centers being for care and kindergartens being for education, for example, has all but disappeared in countries that require staff in different early childhood facilities to have a teaching qualification. The ChildForum early childhood education national organisation highlights that while this can uplift the overall quality of children's learning a primary purpose of all early childhood programmes is nevertheless to provide a high standard of care and nurturance due to the young age and emotional and physical needs of children. However, it is necessary to distinguish between nurturance and locomotive learning. One implies the development of vestigial implements of characterized babies, the other refers to hand-eye co-ordination.

Researchers in the field and early childhood educators both view the parents as an integral part of the early childhood education process.[3] Often educators refer to parents as the child's first and best teacher. Early childhood education takes many forms depending on the beliefs of the educator or parent.

Much of the first two years of life are spent in the creation of a child's first "sense of self" or the building of a first identity.[citation needed] This is a crucial part of children's makeup—how they first see themselves, how they think they should function, how they expect others to function in relation to them.[citation needed] For this reason, early care must ensure that in addition to employing carefully selected and trained caretakers, program policy must emphasize links with family, home culture, and home language, meaning caregivers must uniquely care for each child using Developmentally Appropriate Practice, Individually Appropriate Practice and Culturally Appropriate Practice. Care should support families rather than be a substitute for them (see a review of research on the role of parents and families in early education)

If a young child doesn't receive sufficient nurturing, nutrition, parental/caregiver interaction, and stimulus during this crucial period, the child may be left with a developmental deficit that hampers his or her success in preschool, kindergarten, and beyond.

Worst-case scenarios such as those found in Russian and Romanian orphanages demonstrate how the lack of proper social interaction and development of attachment affect the developing child.[4] Children must receive attention and affection to develop in a healthy manner. While in developed nations today such scenarios are fortunately rare there is a danger of a false belief that more hours of formal education for the very young child = greater benefits for the young child than a balance between formal education and time spent with family. A systematic review of the international evidence suggests that the benefits of early childhood education come from the experience itself of participation and that more than 2.5 hours a day does not greatly add to child development outcomes especially if this means the young child is missing out on other experiences and family contact


Child Safety: Keeping Your Home Safe for Your Baby

Child Safety: Keeping Your Home Safe for Your Baby

Your home should be the safest place for your child. Make sure you know the ins and outs of babyproofing your home before your baby becomes mobile. And remember that home safety continues as your child grows. Lock up guns and medicines, and be sure you know if there are any sources of lead paint in your home. Home safety should not be taken for granted.

How can I make my baby's crib safe?
  • Choose a crib with bars no more than 2 3/8 inches apart. If the space between the bars is too wide, your baby could slip through and strangle between the bars.
  • Use a ruler to check the width of the space between the bars. Weave a cloth between the bars if they are too far apart.
  • The crib should not have corner posts that stick up. Corner posts can be catchpoints for items placed around a child's neck or clothing worn by the child. Unscrew the corner posts or saw them off.
  • The mattress should fit snugly against the sides of the crib. An infant can suffocate if its head or body becomes wedged between the mattress and the sides of the crib. No more than 2 fingers should fit between the mattress and the side of the crib. Place rolled towels between the mattress and the crib if the mattress is too small.
  • When your baby can push up, you should remove bumpers, pillows and toys from the crib including toys that are strung across the crib or a playpen. Your baby can step on these things or use them to climb out of the crib and fall.
 What else can I do to keep the bedroom safe?

Remove any cords that could get around the baby's neck. Keep the crib away from electric cords, drapes and curtain cords, or tie up the cords so they are less than 6 inches long and out of your child's reach. Mobiles and hanging crib toys should also be kept out of your baby's reach. Remove strings on crib toys and pacifiers.

 How can I make the kitchen safe?
 Turn pot handles toward the back of the stove. Use the back burners on the stove for cooking.

Keep hot foods and drinks out of reach – away from the edge of a counter or table. Keep knives and other sharp objects out of reach or in locked or "childproof" drawers or cabinets. Wind up appliance cords and keep them out of reach.


How can I keep medicines and poisons out of reach?

Keep medicines, vitamins, cleaning supplies and other poisons in locked cabinets. Children can't tell the difference between medicine and candy.

If your child swallows something he or she shouldn't, call a poison control center right away. Keep the telephone number by your phone.



How can I make bath time safe?

Because children can drown in very little water, you should always stay with your child when he or she is in the bathtub. NEVER leave your child alone or with an older child in the bathroom or tub – not even for a minute. If you have to answer the phone or doorbell, take your child with you.

Always test the water before putting your child in the tub. Young children have tender skin and are easily burned if the water in the sink or bathtub is too hot.

Set your water heater to 120 F or less. To check the temperature of the hot water from the faucet, run the water over a meat or candy thermometer for 3 minutes.

Keep electrical items such as hair dryers away from the water. Unplug them when you aren't using them. They can cause an electric shock if they fall into the sink or bathtub while they're plugged in.


 How can I be sure toys are safe?
  • Choose carefully when shopping for toys. Look for toys that are well made and appropriate for your child’s age.
  •   Watch out for toys that have sharp edges, small parts or sharp points.
  •   Young children pull, prod and twist toys. Look for toys with tightly secured parts.
  •   Look for safety information on the toy or label such as "Not recommended for children under 3 years of age," or "non-toxic" on toys likely to end up in little mouths. Look for "washable/hygienic materials" on stuffed toys and dolls.
  •   Avoid marbles, balls, games with balls and other toys that have parts smaller than 1 3/4 inches in diameter or smaller than 2 inches long. These products can choke young children if swallowed.
  •   Keep toys meant for older children away from babies and toddlers.
What about houseplants?

 Plants should be placed out of your child's reach. Some houseplants are poisonous. Call your local poison control center to find out if your plants are poisonous.

How can I make stairs safe?

Use toddler gates at the top and bottom of stairs. Do not use gates with big spaces between the slats – children can get trapped in the openings.

How can I make windows safe?


Keep children away from windows to prevent falls. Screens are made to keep bugs out – not to keep children in. Use window guards to keep children from falling. Keep chairs and other furniture away from windows so children can't climb up. If possible, open windows from the top, not the bottom.









Wednesday, 7 December 2011

What Parents Can Do to Change Their Child's Behavior?

Behavior & Emotions



 Dealing with child behavioral and emotional problems can be one of the most difficult parts of parenting. But you can change your child’s behavior. Begin by learning a little bit about child development, your child’s emotions, and the types of therapy that may be beneficial. You can help your child, one step at a time.


What is normal behavior for a child?

Normal behavior in children depends on the child's age, personality, and physical and emotional development. A child's behavior may be a problem if it doesn't match the expectations of the family or if it is disruptive. Normal or "good" behavior is usually determined by whether it's socially, culturally and developmentally appropriate. Knowing what to expect from your child at each age will help you decide whether his or her behavior is normal.

What can I do to change my child's behavior?

Children tend to continue a behavior when it is rewarded and stop a behavior when it is ignored. Consistency in your reaction to a behavior is important because rewarding and punishing the same behavior at different times confuses your child. When you think your child's behavior might be a problem, you have 3 choices:
  •   Decide that the behavior is not a problem because it's appropriate to the child's age and stage of development.
  •  Attempt to stop the behavior, either by ignoring it or by punishing it.
  •   Introduce a new behavior that you prefer and reinforce it by rewarding your child.
 How do I stop misbehavior? 

The best way to stop unwanted behavior is to ignore it. This way works best over a period of time. When you want the behavior to stop immediately, you can use the time-out method.

How do I use the time-out method?

Decide ahead of time the behaviors that will result in a time-out (usually tantrums, or aggressive or dangerous behavior). Choose a time-out place that is uninteresting for the child and not frightening, such as a chair, corner or playpen. When you're away from home, consider using a car or a nearby seating area as a time-out place.

When the unacceptable behavior occurs, tell the child the behavior is unacceptable and give a warning that you will put him or her in time-out if the behavior doesn't stop. Remain calm and don't look angry. If your child goes on misbehaving, calmly take him or her to the time-out area.

If possible, keep track of how long your child's been in time-out. Set a timer so your child will know when time-out is over. Time-out should be brief (generally 1 minute for each year of age), and should begin immediately after reaching the time-out place or after the child calms down. You should stay within sight or earshot of the child, but don't talk to him or her. If the child leaves the time-out area, gently return him or her to the area and consider resetting the timer. When the time-out is over, let the child leave the time-out place. Don't discuss the bad behavior, but look for ways to reward and reinforce good behavior later on.

 How do I encourage a new, desired behavior?

One way to encourage good behavior is to use a reward system. Children who learn that bad behavior is not tolerated and that good behavior is rewarded are learning skills that will last them a lifetime. This works best in children older than 2 years of age. It can take up to 2 months to work. Being patient and keeping a diary of behavior can be helpful to parents.

Choose 1 to 2 behaviors you would like to change (for example, bedtime habits, tooth brushing or picking up toys). Choose a reward your child would enjoy. Examples of good rewards are an extra bedtime story, delaying bedtime by half an hour, a preferred snack or, for older children, earning points toward a special toy, a privilege or a small amount of money.

Explain the desired behavior and the reward to the child. For example, "If you get into your pajamas and brush your teeth before this TV show is over, you can stay up a half hour later." Request the behavior only one time. If the child does what you ask, give the reward. You can help the child if necessary but don't get too involved. Because any attention from parents, even negative attention, is so rewarding to children, they may prefer to have parental attention instead of a reward at first. Transition statements, such as, "In 5 minutes, play time will be over," are helpful when you are teaching your child new behaviors.

This system helps you avoid power struggles with your child.

Why shouldn't I use physical punishment?



Parents may choose to use physical punishment (such as spanking) to stop undesirable behavior. The biggest drawback to this method is that although the punishment stops the bad behavior for a while, it doesn't teach your child to change his or her behavior. Disciplining your child is really just teaching him or her to choose good behaviors. If your child doesn't know a good behavior, he or she is likely to return to the bad behavior. Physical punishment becomes less effective with time and can cause the child to behave aggressively. It can also be carried too far -- into child abuse. Other methods of punishment are preferred and should be used whenever possible.




Monday, 5 December 2011

Choosing Safe Toys for Children Aged Birth to 12 Years


The biggest threat to the health of children over age one is not some dread disease. It is accidental injury. More children are seriously hurt or killed by accidental injuries than by anything else. And many childhood injuries can be prevented by parents who know how. You already care enough to do everything possible to protect your children. Protecting them from injuries is a very important way you can safeguard their health. This publication is one of a series that helps parents prevent childhood injuries.

Toys cause many preventable injuries. Tips on Toys will help you decide just which toys are safe for your children as they grow. Take a few minutes to look over the toys you already have, and keep these guidelines in mind when you buy new ones.

The suggestions made in this publication are based on national information about the kinds of toys most often involved in accidents. Most of this information was gathered by the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, and the checklist was developed under funding from U.S. Centers for Disease Control.

Up to 1 year

Age Group
  • Awareness of sound, motion, touch & color
  • Hand to mouth curiosity
  • (teach the early walker not to walk or run with toys in his mouth)
  • Need constant supervision during play
Safe Toys
  • Unbreakable large-end rattles
  • Squeak toys with molded in noise-maker.
  • Washable dolls and stuffed animals with bright embroidered features
  • Brightly colored objects hanging in view (mobile, etc.) out of reach and with cords less than 12" long
  • Brightly colored cloth or rubber balls with textured surface to grasp
  • Unbreakable cups and smooth objects that can be chewed
  • Brightly colored beads on a strong cord less than 10" long
Dangerous Toys
  • Rattles with ends smaller than 13/8" in diameter
  • Those with small enough to swallow or with removable parts that are sharp or could be swallowed
  • Those with poisonous paint, or cords over 1 2" long
  • Stuffed animals with glass or button eyes

1 to 2 years

Age Group
  • Time of reckless mobility
  • Hand to mouth testing
  • Very curious
  • Needs extremely close supervision during play
Safe Toys
  • Blocks with rounded corners
  • Push-pull toys
  • Books with cloth or stiff pasteboard pages
  • Non-glass mirrors
  • Take apart toys with large pieces
Dangerous Toys
  • Same as above PLUS toys of older children that mobility puts within the toddler's reach
  • Toys with strings over 12" long

2 to 3 years

Age Group
  • Development of language and more curiosity
  • Beginning age of most toy related injuries at age 2
Safe Toys
  • Peg boards with large pieces
  • Wooden animals
  • Large crayons
  • Low rocking horse
  • Dustless chalk and chalkboard
  • Simple musical instruments
  • Simple jigsaw puzzles with large pieces
  • Blocks with numbers and letters
  • Toys that aid color, size and shape identification
  • Sturdy cars and riding toys ( wagons, riding toys, tricycle for 2 1/2 year olds at earliest)
Dangerous Toys
  • Those with sharp edges or easily breakable material
  • Toys with small removable parts or poisonous paints
  • Marbles, beads and coins
  • Electrical toys
  • Metal toys with unfinished slots, holes or edges that can cut
  • Lead soldiers
  • Tricycles with seats over 12" high (not for children under 2 1/2 years)
  • Riding toys used in hilly areas or inclined driveways

3 to 4 years

Age Group
  • Imagination and imitation combined with vigorous physical activity
  • Ending age of most toy related injuries at 4 years
Safe Toys
  • Those in 2-3 year category plus
  • Toy telephones
  • Metal tea set
  • Dolls with wrap-around clothing
  • Construction sets with easily connecting large pieces
  • Rugged key-wound or friction-operated toys
  • Blunt scissors
  • Lacing cards
  • Simple card and board games
  • Non-electrical trains
  • Selected toys with small parts
  • Tricycles with low-slung seats, used off roadways
Dangerous Toys
  • Highly flammable costumes
  • Electrical toys
  • Shooting toys that endanger eyes
  • Poorly balanced tricycles or riding toys
  • Lead soldiers
  • Riding toys in hilly areas or inclined driveways
  • Tricycles that take child too far from supervision
  • Broken toys

4 to 6 years

Age Group
  • Will develop cooperative social play. Improve physical coordination
  • Begins era of bicycle related injuries
Safe Toys
  • Pail and shovel
  • Building blocks
  • More advanced construction sets
  • Cut-out paper dolls, hand and finger puppets Modeling clay
  • Paints and paint books
  • Non-electrical trains, battery operated toys
  • Kites
  • Stencils, activity books and picture books
  • More demanding board and card games
  • Simple musical instruments
  • Small sports equipment
  • Selected toys with small parts
  • Bicycle with 20" wheel and training wheels, for 4-7 year olds
Dangerous Toys
  • Poisonous or oil-based paint sets
  • Flammable costumes or ones with material to the floor
  • Kites made of electrically conductible aluminized polyester film
  • Electrical toys, unless battery operated
  • Shooting toys and darts with pointed tips
  • Poorly-balanced tricycles or wagons
  • Bicycle poorly maintained
  • Bicycle used on roadways
  • Bicycle too large for child
  • Fireworks of any kind
  • Lawn darts

6 to 8 years

Age Group
  • Further cooperative and social play
  • Physical and intellectual interests. May have renewed interest in playing alone
Safe Toys
  • Kites
  • Battery-powered electrical toys with Underwriters Laboratory (UL) approval
  • Puppets and puppet theatre
  • Complicated jigsaw puzzles
  • Games requiring some reading
  • Well constructed, lightweight tool sets
  • Dolls and doll equipment
  • Flower press
  • Set demonstrating simple principles of science. (Magnets & magnifiers, etc.)
  • Equipment for playing bank, store, filling station, etc.
  • Bicycle with 24" wheel for 7-10 year olds
Dangerous Toys
  • Kites made of electrically conductible aluminized polyester film
  • Poorly made sports equipment
  • Shooting toys and toys with loud noises (cap guns, etc.)
  • Fireworks of any kind
  • Electrical toys run on household current
  • Lawn darts
  • Broken toys

8 to 12 years

Age Group
  • Art, Craft, Building and Science interests
Safe Toys
  • Electrical toys with UL approval used on household current only after you have explained how to use toy and electrical plug and outlets
  • Bicycle with 26" wheel for kids over 10
  • Other sidewalk vehicles, skates, skateboards, etc.
  • Well-constructed sports equipment
  • Put together models
  • Chemistry and other science kits
  • Hobby and Arts and Crafts kits and materials
  • Some projectile toys (dart guns, etc.)
Dangerous Toys
  • Lawn darts
  • Fireworks of any kind
  • Sharp-edged tools
  • Poorly constructed sports equipment
  • B-B Guns/Air Rifles, until child understands gun safety

Sunday, 4 December 2011

Why too much care for your child can harm society?

Why too much care for your child can harm society?



Families are mini-civilisations; experience and research show they are the best means of rearing our young into fulfilled adulthood. But families are the prisons that can deform individuals for life and whose private arrangements generate fantastic inequality for society beyond.

Parenting offers endless dilemmas - navigating your way between throwing a protective mantle around your children, and knowing that it is only by withdrawing the mantle that they can achieve the independence necessary to you and them. There are also pernicious social consequences from your family choices. Should you care? In conservative times, we hear much about the benefits of family, too little about the degree family can be bad both for children and for our wider society.


  • Leaving a distressed baby to cry on a regular basis could be damaging to the developing brain, according to parenting guru Penelope Leach, whose new book will be seen as a head-on confrontation with the tough-love approach of baby experts such as Gina Ford, who say parents should "train" their infants by allowing them to cry themselves to sleep.
  • In the latest salvo in the baby wars, Leach brings science to her aid, which she says has progressed remarkably in recent years. Using saliva swab tests, scientists have been able to measure high levels of the stress hormone cortisol in distraught babies whose cries elicit no response from parent or carer. Neurobiologists say, according to Leach, that high cortisol levels are "toxic" to the developing brain.
One of the consequences of Tory MP Derek Conway losing his job for giving his sons our money for doing nothing is that a spotlight has been shone on the dubious practice of MPs employing family members and the culture that justifies it. In conservative lore, nothing should prevent - certainly no obligation to society - parents being able to give everything to the children they love, the tearjerker argument that shadow Chancellor George Osborne used to justify his proposed lifting of the threshold for inheritance tax to a £1m.

Conway, the bone-headed Tory, was merely stretching that philosophy to the limits, but has found that there are obligations, such as accountability and propriety, that get in the way. It was public money he had been spending. The case was open and shut. But parallel arguments extend to the private sphere, as Nigella Lawson showed in a widely publicised interview in My Weekly. She differed from her husband, Charles Saatchi, she said, about how much of their estimated £110m fortune they should leave their children. Echoing American billionaires Warren Buffett and Bill Gates, she believed that too much inherited money corrupts children; they need to work. Her husband took the premodern, dynastic and conservative view that every penny should be passed on with the DNA.

On her website, Ms Lawson subsequently revealed that this shouldn't be understood as a desire to leave her children destitute. It is about choosing between leaving nothing and everything, a debate about degree that extends well beyond the Lawson/Saatchi family. In an era of sky-high house prices, how much of the equity in your home should you give to your children to buy theirs? How much inheritance should you leave them? How much should you be the 'helicopter parent' hovering obsessively over your offspring and fighting for the best across the board?

Plainly, you can and must enable your children: to prohibit them from accessing what you have and who you are is impossible and would be counter to our deepest instincts. But at what point does such enablement become destructive for them and for society? A generation ago, there would have been very many more who took Nigella Lawson's view that the bias must be to help children stand on their own two feet. Now the doctrine is that the family must rule.

Today's parents have become obsessive about their children, relentlessly buying them every advantage they can which they cap with the promise of the maximum inheritance. It is not just the growth of tutoring and private schools; it extends to university. Dr Paul Redmond, Liverpool University's head of careers and employability, tells how a growing number of parents challenge exam results, attend career fairs and even negotiate their children's first salaries.

It is parents who are behind the new market in downloadable, prewritten essays. Parents use every tool possible to advance their child's cause and universities are developing a response. Huddersfield University is the first to have a parents' liaison officer; many universities now have 'parent packs'.
As Redmond says, this hyperactivity beyond a certain age actively harms children. Employers want rounded, self-starting adults, not overgrown children used to their parents constantly bailing them out when called upon. The mobile phone is an often disastrous kind of umbilical cord. Too much parental involvement infantilises children, whether driving them a few hundred yards to school when they are teenagers or joining them for interviews with potential employers when they are young adults. Expectations of future inheritance tends to remove a key spur to self-improvement and self-control.

Fewer and fewer of the very rich consider bequesting their assets to charity, a university or a great cause; the volume of giving has remained static over the last decade despite the upsurge in private wealth. They would rather spend it on themselves and leave the rest to their children.

A recent London School of Economics report shows that Britain has the highest number of family firms managed by children of the founder; it is a managerial disaster, a potent explanation of our poor productivity. Few think to challenge the practice or endorse the call for higher inheritance tax to check it.
Part of the explanation is the privatisation of the public sphere. The more the realm of the private grows, the less accountability and fairness can be expected. That old injunction that it's not what you know, it's who you know seems truer than ever. The only network you can rely on is family.

This is reinforced by a mawkish conservatism that celebrates blood, tribe and nation; we are not a society trying to advance together but a network of concentric blood rings radiating out from family, in which case we had better look out for our own.

Jean-Paul Sartre wrote that the existential freedom to make and remake one's life could only be achieved by rounded adults and that adulthood required rupturing the bonds with one's parents to reconstruct them later. Parents setting out to cosset their kids surely have a greater obligation: to help them become adults in the best sense of that term. The paradox is that you make that rite of passage harder by gilding it too much with family advantage. Our private and public choices should reflect that truth.

Your Child and Family

 Your Child and Family



About 70% of parents place their young children in some type of daily care. Whether you choose in-home or center-based care, a preschool, or someone else's home for your child's daily care setting, you should follow some specific guidelines to ensure receiving quality, professional care.

Most important is to know your own child's temperament, likes and dislikes, health, interests, and behavior. For a baby under 1 year old, give careful attention to your child's need to be nurtured and held, any special health needs, and the type of person you want to care for your child during the first year of life. For an older child, developing play and learning styles, interaction with other kids, intellectual curiosity, and need for individualized attention should be considered.

The family's own values and emotional needs also come into play. Some parents are overly anxious about leaving their very young child with one person, while others prefer this individual care. But by age 3 or 4, it's good for kids to have at least some exposure to other kids and participate in a structured program like preschool or daycare.